Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Are you serious?

March 9th, 2007

I was working as a bilingual teacher at an elementary school in West Chicago. It was Friday, the school day was over, and it was time to go home.(Hallelujah!) I knew I'd be seeing David that night, and was looking forward to relaxing. The day was really mild. We'd had some snow a few weeks before, but that day it was warm and rainy - probably in the 50s - and very foggy. Spring was on its way, which was making the start of my weekend even better.

As I tromped through piles of slushy snow to the front door of my apartment, my cell rang. It was David.

"Hey, guess what? I got off early today! So I'm coming over. Let's do something fun - have a date night - go to dinner and all that." He sounded wound up - happier than I'd heard him in a long time. The spring-like weather must have been getting to him, too.

"Sounds great!" I said. About an hour later he showed up at my door. He was soaking wet. "Let's take a walk!"

"Did it start raining again?" I asked. "And what about dinner?"

"Have you been outside?" he responded.

"No... not for a while," I answered.

"Well, I got caught in a little downpour while I was running an errand. Come on, let's go for a walk! We can do dinner later."

I looked at his soaked clothes dubiously. I hemmed, I hawed. Why in the world did he want to go out walking in this? I made some excuses. He was having none of it.

"Put on your boots. Let's go down to Island Park." His "charm" (read: stubbornness) convinced me. But I still grumbled as I pulled on my traffic-cone-orange snow boots. "Well, these certainly make for a sexy date outfit," I thought.

Once at the park, he took my arm. We slopped together (under an umbrella) through the drizzle and the icy, snowy puddles on the bike path. It really was rather pretty. It was still warm, but had gotten dark, but the lights from the town lit the park all around us. The river glowed from the streetlights and thick clouds of fog were rising from it. It was rather dreamlike. I wanted to stop and take it in, but David was on a mission. He practically ran me through the park, over to the pavilion where we sometimes sat and talked.  "What's up with you?" I whined.

Suddenly, my friend Pam leaped out from the doorway of the pavilion. "I'm so sorry, David!" she said frantically. "I couldn't get the fire to light!" And she ran off into the dark park. It was then that I figured out there were games afoot. Suddenly, I was nervous. And hopeful.

We walked into the pavilion. There sat a small round table, a few shining candles, a vase of red roses, two glasses, and a bottle of wine. Knowing my husband, there was probably music. (There was a stereo on the fireplace mantle. But I don't remember if it was playing.) I looked at David. He looked at me. I thought, "This better be what I think it is... or I'll kick him."

He sat me down. "Let me see if I can get the fire to light," he said, and began busying himself with the matches. I sat and watched, my mind racing. He was nervous. He wouldn't look at me. But he did get the fire started. Then he started pacing in a circle next to me. I sat and watched him, not sure what to do.

And then suddenly he dropped to one knee. He took my hand. "Brittany, I love you.... Will you marry me?"

My first thought was, "This is really happening. Is this really happening? Huh. Maybe this is why my parents called me five times this afternoon." What I said was,"Are you serious?"

He looked utterly confused. "Yes!"

I looked at him. I smiled. And then, of course, I said yes.

We got caught in the rain on the way home. And then we went out to celebrate. And each year at this time, I start wishing I could live that night all over again.

At dinner (after the rain-soaking), celebrating the proposal.

Thursday, January 27, 2011

What She Looks Like Lately

Abigail loves wearing her hat. She was pretty excited about her snow pants, too.

Until we went outside to actually experience her first snowfall. Apparently Abigail shares her parents' feelings about Chicago winters.
She loves her books, and her stuffed animals. Here she's reading to her elephant and Oma's teddy.

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

The Art of Conversation... With Abigail

The Babblegail is three days shy of turning 19 months old. A few weeks ago David and I counted the words in her vocabulary. We knew she was a chatterbox – we wanted to see just how much of one. Over several days, we counted 110 recognizable words that she uses to communicate, not including names of family members or animal sounds. (If we added those in it would have been at least 30 more words.) We stopped counting after a while because we realized she was learning a new word or two every day.

Can the average listener interpret all her words? I don't know. But here are some of my new favorites.

At dinner:
Abigail is in her high chair, chugging a cup of milk. She burps. She looks at me, surprise in her bright eyes, and says, “Bup!”
“Did you burp?” I ask.
“Yeah,” she answers.
“After your burp you should say, 'Excuse me'. That’s the polite thing to do.”
She thinks for a moment, looks at me thoughtfully and burps again.
"What do you say?" I prompt her.
"Ah-boogie!” she says, and smiles.

Also at dinner:
Abigail is learning how to use a spoon and is eating yogurt. Most of the yogurt is ending up everywhere but her mouth. It's a rather sloppy affair, and Abigail knows it. Each night, she looks down at her tray, up at me, and says, "UH OH! It a bih meh!"

At bedtime:
Abigail is in her crib, pulling her blanket up to her face.
“Night night Daddy. Ub-ew, Daddy,” she says.
“I love you too, Abigail,” Daddy answers, smiling.
A pause.
“Fwee!” she cries happily.
And another pause.
“Nine!”

In other news, Abigail is also developing her own sense of style. She chose these shoes and hat the other day.
 I think she gets it from her Aunt Lauren.



Tuesday, January 25, 2011

Back in the (Blogging) Game

Or trying, at least.

I won't even try to explain where I've been since September. I don't know. But here I am now. Aren't you so glad to see me?

I like being domestic.Maybe my more liberal-minded friends will roll their eyes at this, but I love being a stay-at-home mom. I wish I was better at it. The past few days have been remarkably productive. I'm always so proud of myself when I'm organized and busy around the home. I've planned menus for two weeks - and actually cooked them. I've baked cookies (oatmeal chocolate chip - spectacular!) instead of stocking up on store brands. I've organized closets and basement storage. I've done what feels like a billion loads of laundry. I've written thank-you cards. I've been working on stuff for our young moms' ministry at church. I feel like the Proverbs 31 woman - "she considers a field and she buys it". I'm not buying any fields, of course, but you know if there were any available around here, I might have considered one this week.

Seriously, you should be proud of me.  It's not always that way. There are many days I just want to stop and take a nap when Abigail does. And since I'm 22 weeks pregnant, I usually do. But the energy I've had the past few days has been nice. It makes me wish that I had more of those domestic skills. Like sewing, for example. The panel in my maternity jeans tore the other day, and I realized we had NO needles or thread in our house. How is that possible? I had to go to the store and search out one of those little sewing kits, just so I could mend that hole. Now I need to figure out how to actually do it. I don't really know how. The tear is on the stretchy part, right by the seam. So, really - how do you sew it closed? Any suggestions?

Monday, September 27, 2010

Picture Perfect

Oma visited this past weekend and while she was here she attempted a Yeager family photo.
 







Don't hate us because we're beautiful.